Somatic sex coaching combines talk-based coaching, body-based awareness, breathwork, movement, touch (when consented), and education to support people in exploring and deepening their relationship to their body, pleasure, and sexuality. It's client-centered, trauma-aware, and always consent-led.

Neither. I am not a sex worker and I don’t offer sexual services on demand. I also don’t offer psychotherapy or medical treatment. My role is that of a coach and guide — supporting embodied awareness, erotic learning, and emotional integration. I can work alongside other forms of support, such as therapy or medical care.

Intimacy coaching and sexological bodywork are for everyone and every body!

As a trans non-binary queer person, my approach to this work is shaped by my experience, and I actively challenge normative ways of being. However, that doesn't mean I only work with queer and trans individuals.

Everyone is welcome — regardless of gender identity, orientation, body type, or relationship style. I also work with straight and cis clients who seek an inclusive, sex-positive, and nonjudgmental space.

Each session is co-created. We begin by checking in, exploring intentions, boundaries, and consent. Depending on your goals, a session might include breathwork, body awareness practices, touch (internal or external, always with gloves and consent), guided self-touch, coaching, or stillness. There is always space to pause, reflect, and integrate.

Only if you consent to it. Touch is never required. We’ll always have a clear agreement beforehand. Some sessions may include one-way touch (e.g. scar tissue massage or genital mapping), while others may involve guiding you in self-touch. I remain clothed throughout sessions and follow professional ethics and hygiene practices.

At the moment, I offer 1-on-1 sessions. With the possibility of expanding into couple, throuple, and group coaching in the future.

Many of my clients have histories of trauma. I work gently, with a trauma-aware and consent-based approach, and we go at your pace. This work can be a powerful complement to therapy, but it is not a replacement. If you're unsure, you're welcome to book a free call to explore whether this is right for you.

A session lasts 90 minutes, although we can also arrange for longer sessions if needed.

I offer sessions on a sliding scale, from 45 - 100 euros per session, because I believe embodied healing and pleasure should be accessible. You choose a rate based on your financial situation. I’m happy to discuss what works for you during our intro call.

I will increase my prices on sept 1st 2026.
More info on prices here

I speak Dutch and English and sessions can be done in both those languages.

I’m based in Utrecht, Netherlands, and offer in-person sessions in a private, warm, and inclusive space. I also work online for coaching and some embodied practices.

Book a free 30-minute introductory call. We’ll get to know each other, talk about your intentions, and see if it’s a good fit. From there, we can schedule your first session.