Hi, my name is Marijn Kuijper (they/them)

I’m a queer, trans non-binary, and polyamorous person in my 40s. I’m a partner and a parent. I embrace a sex-positive, kink-positive and body neutral approach and work from a trauma-informed perspective.

My practice is rooted in radical acceptance, somatic awareness, and a belief that pleasure is for every body.
As a trans and queer person, my approach to this work is shaped by my lived experience, and I actively challenge normative ways of being.

However, that doesn't mean I only work with queer or trans individuals. Whether you're cisgender or straight, you're just as welcome to work with me, as long as you feel comfortable doing so.

I’m creating a space where all parts of you are welcome to be expressed. My job is to take care of you and hold space for everything that arises during a session.

If you are curious what clients are saying about my way of coaching, take a look at the testimonials on the homepage.

Ethics & professional standards

Your safety, boundaries, and trust are central in every session.

I practice in line with the Relational Harmony Institute’s Code of Ethics and the ACSB (Association of Certified Sexological Bodyworkers), of which I am a member.

This means I always:

  • Respect your consent and boundaries

  • Keep everything you share confidential

  • Use touch only with clear agreements

  • Support your autonomy, learning, and comfort

  • Continuously reflect and grow as a practitioner

  • Invite your feedback at any point, so we can adjust the work to your needs

If any concern or grievance arises that we cannot resolve together, you can access the ACSB grievance processhttps://sexologicalbodyworkers.org/grievances.

These standards create a safe, respectful space for your exploration.

Education & work history

Education

2025-2026 Certified Sexological Bodyworker Training,
Institute for Relational Harmony Studies, UK

2024-2025 Certified Somatic Intimacy Coach Training,
Institute for Relational Harmony Studies, UK

2012-2018 Photography Royal Academy of Art, The Hague NL (Bachelor of Design)

1998-2004 Cultural Sciences, Maastricht University (drs. / Master of Arts)

Professional career

2025 – present
Certified Somatic Intimacy Coach & Bodywork Practitioner, self employed.

2018 - present
Visual Artist, you can view my work here

2009 – present
Preventionworker at the Centre for Sexual Health, City of Rotterdam